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Last updated: 12/2/06
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Message from Maria:
I recently ordered a custom “service harness” for SAM.
I am really excited to get his new harness as this will
allow me to feel SAM as he moves. Sam is overcoming many
obstacles in his training…being a small dog is not an
issue because Sam doesn't know that he is a small dog.
My mom and I have been asked to speak at many companies
this month. For example, we were speaking to Waste Management
in Bremerton. We had never been to this location before
and when I asked Sam to take me to the door…..he did!
When I asked him to turn right and left…..he did!. Sam
loves our speaking engagements. He usually has a few words
of his own to share. That is way he is a “must have CAV!”
We both feel honored to be asked to speak and share my
story. I feel that it is important to lend a personal
story to this kind of road hazard. It helps to educate
others on Why it is so “Important to Secure Your Load.”
We ask that everyone step out of their comfort zone and
report an unsecured load or tell your neighbor or family
member about what can happen to others if loads are not
properly secured. Washington State Patrol has recently
added an ICON to their website. You can report
an unsecured load by giving the license plate, location,
and what was seen. WSP will follow up with a letter to
the vehicle's owner letting them know that they were seen
with an unsecured load.
Speaking and sharing my story has given me the opportunity
to use my degree in Speech Communications. After these
speaking engagements we feel exhilarated because people
care enough to listen and that in itself is some kind
of justice to know that we may have helped others to be
safe! We also get an opportunity to hear their stories.
This kind of road incident happens more often than people
think. Often times they are not reported as unsecured
load incidents.
If you think it would be helpful to have my mother and
I speak at your company to educate your employees….please
leave a note on this website. Happy Holidays and BE SAFE!
- Maria
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Last updated: 10/29/06
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Maria just had another surgery on October 13th, Friday
the 13th! Some of the metal plating in her face,
had migrated and come up through her eye socket.
Maria had been in quite a bit of pain for several months,
while trying to wait for a surgery date. Finally
the day came…the surgery only last 1-2 hours.
The metal was pushed back under the skin and her plastic
surgeon even took some time to reduce the bone on the
bridge of her new nose. Her plastic surgeon is such
a wizard! It has only been two and 1/2 weeks since the
operation and you can’t even see where the incision
was made on the bridge of her nose. Maria is excited
and relieved that the metal in her eye has been removed.
She will now be able to get refitted for her prosthetic
eye.
On Friday, we had the opportunity to have another ambulance
ride. Maria was having very bad chest pains.
We drove to the Renton fire station, where it was determined
that she should probably go to the hospital. We
spent half the day in Overlake ER where she was treated
by some wonderful doctor and nurses. We are still
not sure why she is having chest pains but they seem to
be a little better. This was the first time,
since the incident, that Maria asked to go the hospital.
She was scared!
Maria and SAM are doing very well in their “service”
dog training. Their current goal is to get SAM to
guide Maria around objects in their path. He is
doing a great job of learning his job. I particularly
want to thank Barnes and Noble, Lowes and Costco for being
great training grounds for Sam and Maria. A custom
guide harness is being designed, for SAM, in Oklahoma.
We are hopeful that it will be finished in the next month
or so. This new harness will make it easier for
Maria to feel what SAM is doing.
Maria’s birthday is approaching….she will
be 27 on Halloween!
Be safe out there…please tell others to “Secure
their Load”!
-Robin
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Last updated: 8/21/06
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It is with great sadness that we report another death
due to an “unsecured load!” There are no words
to express our sadness for the family that was left behind
without a husband and father. The incident took place
on Friday when a driver lost some metal shelving on I-5.
The driver of the car behind him did not have a chance.
Every week Maria and I meet with companies to share her
story with the hopes that everyone who hears the message
will take a moment to share her story with others. We
ask that everyone, step out of their comfort zone, and
tell someone you see, hauling an unsecured load, to secure
their load.
-Robin
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Last updated: 8/1/06
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Maria and I have some exciting news! Maria and her little
Cavalier SAM, both just passed their Delta Society therapy
test. They are both qualified now as a therapy team that
can go into hospitals. Maria wants to be able to volunteer
in the hospitals so she can help ease the fear of children
who may be scared. As Maria’s mom, I was so proud
of her because both of them received all excellent and
perfect scores on their final test. They are now moving
on for SAM’s service training. Sam really enjoys
his job and guides Maria to the door, car, gate and on
walks. He is truly a big dog in a little package.
Last month, Maria attended and participated in her first
speech with me. We were invited to speak to Foushee Construction’s
Annual Safety Banquet. There were 150 construction workers
in attendance and it was such a great experience for Maria.
You could have heard a pin drop as she got up to speak
and answer questions. Even Sam attended and had a few
words to say. Needless to say I was again a very proud
mother that Maria now wants to join me so that she can
help educate the public so that this type of incident
may not happen to others.
Thanks to all of you who have supported and prayed for
us. It has truly made a difference in our lives.
-Robin
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Last updated: 2/23/06
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Greetings to you all out there. I wanted to let you know
there has been some media attention for Maria lately as
her accident anniversary is again upon us. Can you believe
it has been 2 years?!
Maria has come along way since that day, both physically
and emotionally. Her mother and family have also had many
changes and adjustments to make since then. There is a
new article written by Robert Jamieson in the local paper
this weekend (view
this article), and Kathy Geortzen from KOMO
channel 4 in Seattle has done a follow up interview that
will, I believe, be televised today. You can visit their
web site for more information. (http://www.komotv.com/)
Both of these interviews give a good description of how
Maria is doing and what she wants for the future. I invite
you to take a look.
Best to you all!
-Sherry
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Last updated: 1/25/06
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I wanted you all to be aware of the recent tragic unsecured
load accident that happened in Tacoma yesterday. We have
included this story on our home page, or you can view
the entire story on the KOMO
website for January 24, 2006.
Another bit of synchronicity: Robin was in Olympia all
day yesterday testifying before the Senate and House committees
about the Victim's Crime Compensation part of the law
passed last year. After hearing of the incident, she was
able to ask them to make the Victim's Crime Compensation
retroactive for this little boy. Keep your fingers crossed!
We appreciate you joining us in sending our support and
prayers to the Harmon family at this difficult time.
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Last updated:
1/12/06
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Happy New Year to you all!
I received a wonderful surprise last week, when Maria
came home from the eye clinic with both her new hand-painted
eyes. They are beautiful brown eyes! I had forgotten how
long and black her eyelashes were. I am still in shock
as to how beautiful she looks with her new eyes.
Sam, Maria's therapy dog, goes almost everywhere with
her now. He is very dedicated to her and seems to be catching
on to his job. He will sit at her side for hours, waiting
for her at the doctor's office. Some days retail shopping
is in order and Sam is a professional shopper at Nordstroms.
One of his favorite hangouts is Starbucks. Sam stands
only 12 inches high but he is serious in his quest to
guide Maria.
-Robin Abel
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Last updated:
9/24/05
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Maria's most recent eye surgery went well and she is now
recovering. The surgery took longer than normal because
she had some metal plates that were pushing into the eye
socket area. They were shaved down and the prosthetic
eye was put in place. It will be 6-8 weeks before we know
if the surgery is going to be successful. There is always
a chance that an infection could set in or her body could
reject the eye. Your prayers are appreciated!
Maria was very brave both before and after the surgery.
She continues to amaze me with her ability to put up with
so much pain and still be optimistic. The implant has
given her right eye shape again and in 6-8 weeks she will
have a hand painted contact put in place over the prosthetic
implant. I have been told that they appear to be so real
that most people can't tell the difference.
On another note, I have been asked to speak at the Governor's
Health and Safety Conference this month. I feel that this
is an important opportunity to share our message to secure
loads.
Last week, I talked with a friend of mine from Utah.
I was stunned to find out that her son had almost lost
his life in a road debris accident when someone lost a
chair in front of their truck which went through their
windshield. The truck rolled down Peasley Canyon and was
totaled. There were serious injuries but all survived.
Just hearing her story gave me the strength to continue
to share our message about unsecured loads and even more
determined to make this a NATIONAL LAW.
Thank you all for your support and prayers!!!!!
-Robin Abel
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Last updated:
7/23/05
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Hello to all of you and I hope you are enjoying your
summer. Robin and Maria are taking some time off this
summer to enjoy themselves and relax.
Maria is really getting into making jewelry these days
and spends many hours each week creating some very beautiful
pieces. Thanks to all of you who have sent in your old
discarded jewelry pieces, she is really having fun. She
is also feeling encouraged lately to work on her independence.
She is practicing with her cane and learning how to be
more self sufficient. She has been spending time with
close friends and her spirits are high.
Robin has also been able to take some time during the
day for herself lately. Their garden is looking beautiful
and the puppies are enjoying the hot weather and swimming
in Lake Kathleen. With the recent beautiful weather they
have also had the opportunity to take their barge out
a few time to get in some fishing.
Much work has been done over the last month by many dedicated
people. The newly formed Maria Federici Foundation has
connected with local and national organizations and government
agencies to help create educational material and offer
helpful information about unsecured loads. The Washington
state dept of ecology has some helpful resources available
and I encourage folks to visit their website and see the
new video that was made about the hazards of unsecured
load and littering. To view this video visit the DOE site
http://www.ecy.wa.gov/programs/swfa/litter/
and click on the video link. There is also a helpful brochure
you can download, the link is just under the video link.
We applaud the Department of Ecology's efforts and encourage
you to let them know your thought on their important work.
You can email them at: litter1@ecy.wa.gov
Have a safe and happy summer.
-Sherry P
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Much time has passed since I have sent an update. Maria
has been doing better the last few weeks. Her headaches
have been much better and she is busy working on making
jewelry. Maria has always been a very talented and creative
artist. Right now she is making bracelets and working
on a design for a necklace. Her bracelets are made of
old discarded jewelry pieces.
Maria and I attended the Medic One Foundation annual
event. Maria's story was one of two stories that were
shared with all medics and firemen. What felt especially
good to Maria and I was that the celebration was about
the medics and firemen who saved her life and not just
about us. Maria made four bracelets for the silent auction
and all of them sold immediately. Maria was so proud that
she helped raise money for the Medic One Foundation "It
felt really good to be able to give back to others."
If anyone wants to donate some old jewelry that she could
take apart, we would be very appreciative.
you can send your jewelry to:
Maria's Miracle
c/o Robin Abel
4004 NE 4th Street # 322
Renton, WA 98056
We are taking long walks again, now that the weather
is better. We are up to 3 miles and it seems like the
MOM is wearing out first! Maria's dog, Jorja, usually
goes with us and even Jorja is losing weight; so I guess
that our workouts are doing their job.
All of you probably know that the Governor signed our
HB 1478 on May 13, 2005. Both Maria and I and Sherry attended
the ceremony. It was a very special time for us. We had
a private meeting with the Governor before the signing.
The Governor led Maria into the conference room and when
she was done signing the Bill, Maria was given the pen.
It felt like a little piece of justice, having the Bill
signed. We are now working on taking this Bill to the
Federal level.
We are looking for a Volunteer Coordinator to help set
up several committees comprised of our volunteers. No
one has offered to date and we have so many wonderful
people who have volunteered to help and we would love
to have their assistance. Would anyone like to take on
this position for a minimum timeframe just to help us
get up and running? If you can help, please contact us
at icanhelp@mariasmiracle.com
Thank you all for all the support, prayers and words
of encouragement. I hope that all of you realize how much
this support means to us. The days are often long and
lonely and after many months this situation "wears
out" friends. Your words of encouragement mean a
lot to us. Thank you.
-Robin, Maria's Mother
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Last updated:
5/02/05
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Maria and her mother Robin are taking a break from the
limelight now. There are so many people and organizations
reaching out to them and they are very happy, grateful
and excited to make some real changes on the issue of
unsecured loads. But for now. Rest is necessary.
A wonderful article on
the front page of the LA Times (the Los Angeles Daily
Newspaper) I wanted to share this with you all. Maria
was very please how the journalist Thomas Tizone, told
her story. You can view the entire article at this link:
LAtimes.com
Here is a small selection
of that story...
"... Local news media described it as a freak accident.
Pictures of a photogenic Federici — with wavy dark
hair, expressive eyes and an easy smile — ran in
newspapers and television broadcasts as police sought
help in tracing the origins of the board.
Tearful friends and family described Federici as talkative
and full of life, driven and slightly sassy. At 5-foot-3,
she was a sparkplug of energy, tough enough to hold her
own with strangers but vulnerable with friends. She was
widely adored.
As her relatives pleaded for people with information
to come forward, news of similar incidents came to light.
Days before Federici's accident, Claudia Avila, 43, was
fatally struck by a 34-pound metal plate on Interstate
95 in Florida. A few weeks later, Michael Hall, 43, was
killed when he rolled his SUV trying to avoid a clothes
dryer on Interstate 75 in Atlanta.
Frustrated by their inability to bring charges against
the driver, and with full support of the King County Prosecutors
office, they lobbied lawmakers to pass a tougher law on
debris-caused accidents. They testified in the Legislature,
telling Federici's story. The lawyers recruited sponsors,
and with almost no debate, legislators approved the Federici
Bill on April 14, 2005. On that day, two carpoolers were
killed on the Golden State Freeway in Los Angeles when
a metal freight container coupling crashed through their
windshield.
The Washington bill, awaiting the governor's signature,
makes it a crime to fail to secure a load that results
in bodily injury. Conviction could bring up to one year
in jail and $5,000 in fines. The person injured would
also have access to a state compensation fund for crime
victims. Gerry Forbes, author of the AAA Foundation report,
said it would be the most stringent law of its kind in
the nation. "If it makes people take a few extra
minutes when they go to the home improvement store to
lash objects down securely," Forbes said, "it
could save lives — in particular, the lives of the
people driving just behind you."
Abel says her daughter has recently become deeply depressed:
"Like she's just realizing." But on this day,
Federici seems glad for the company. Her demeanor suggests
someone who doesn't want you to feel sorry for her."
...Read
more of this article.
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Last updated:
4/14/05
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Bill 1478 Passed by Washington
State Legislators!
This bill not only increases
penalties for failure to secure a vehicle load on a public
highway, is also makes that failure to secure a load in
the first degree (which causes harm or death) a gross
misdemeanor making it possible for victims who are harmed
eligible for assistance under the Crime Victims' Compensation
Act.
Robin and Maria spent the entire day at the Washington
State Senate session to make sure to keep the pressure
on legislators to pass the new amendment. Although most
everyone agreed that the bill will have very little votes
against passing. To have only 1 day left of this session
and the bill not to have been addressed was too much for
them to ignore. Many well written legislation just doesn't
get voted on because there are so many items to be worked
on during the session.
We all so appreciate everyone's support in passing this
bill. The Maria Federici Foundation has been in contact
with many other states with support and interest in bringing
this bill to their state legislators.
You can learn more by going to the WA
state site: or view our home
page.
YEA!
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Last updated:
4/09/05
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It is amazing how quickly time is passing and equally
amazing to realize all that has happened in the last year.
I apologize to everyone who looks to this page to find
out how Maria is doing in your continuing support of her
and this very important issue. Initially the hope was
that Maria would be able to take on this outreach and
update page and use it to connect with all of you to keep
you current with the events of her life. It seems that
this will not be possible at least in the near future.
This is somewhat of a disappointment to not only those
of you who are genuinely interested and invested in Maria
and her story, but also for all of us close to her. She
is well and learning new ways to get on with her life,
but healing happens at its own pace and we can only support
that schedule.
Maria has been able to work creatively with a friend
and neighbor Diana, on some beautiful mosaic stepstones,
and this she really enjoys. She is happy to work out with
her therapist, and is enjoying her home life and puppies.
She does deal with pain much of the time but on her better
days, she is very articulate and laughs and has fun.
She has also been connecting with many journalists and
some Washington state agencies to support much needed
changes in how we as citizens can understand the importance
of securing loads. Many of these connections are very
important to her and the newly established Maria Federici
Foundation.
There was another unsecured load accident (not Tragic
, thank god) in the Seattle area a few days ago. To learn
more about this you can follow this link; http://www.komotv.com/stories/36179.htm
We are all very grateful that no one was hurt, but it
is just another example that things need to change. If
you want to help, sign up on our volunteer
page.
Our temporary site for the Maria Federici Foundation
will be up and running on April 11, 2005
at www.fearnoloads.org.
Visit us there to find out about the work that we and
other important agencies and individual are doing.
Warmly,
Sherry
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Last updated:
2/24/05
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Yesterday was an inspiring day for those of us who traveled
down to Olympia with Robin and Maria. They were in our
state capital to show support for a new bill that was
developed from language the Maria Federici Foundation
had given to Norm Maleng (the King County Prospecting
Attorney.) He and has staff helped to acquire a sponsor
in the State Senate and House of Representatives for this
bill.
To start the day, Maria and Robin had been called by
the local news agencies to set up time for them to speak
with them before the senate hearing. For about an hour,
Maria talked with many television reporters and really
did a amazing job. There were many reporters in the hearing
room once we all got inside and seated. After Robin's
testimony, a testimony from Norm Maleng (who sat beside
Robin), and the testimony from AAA Foundation's representative,
the Senate Judiciary Committee immediately voted in favor
of the bill. It's now getting the fast track. Lawmakers
say it's the least they can do for a young woman who's
shown so much courage and strength.
The media has again been so supportive and kind to Maria
and Robin and have written some great articles and compassionate
television reports. To view some of them click on the
links below.
http://www.komotv.com/stories/35413.htm
http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/komo/kel_federicic_022305.shtml?searchpagefrom=1&searchdiff=0
http://www.kingcountyjournal.com/sited/story/html/186622
To learn more about the new bill, visit the following
link.
http://www.leg.wa.gov/pub/billinfo/2005-06/Htm/Bills/Senate%20Bills/5457.htm
Now Maria and Robin will take a few days and rest up.
They have both been very busy lately and need some time
for themselves.
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Last updated:
2/21/05
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It again has been a long time since the last update.
Robin, Maria's mother, has had to look into working again
now. She is also collaborating with some close friends
on Companion Bills about unsecured loads, which will hopefully
go through the Washington State Senate and House of Representatives
this session. At the same time work is being done on the
creation of The Maria Federici Foundation. She is continually
trying to help herself and Maria deal with their day to
day lives. Needless to say, her extra time is limited.
Maria is dealing with her daily struggles and is working
through her emotions about her situation. She has had
some new folks coming to spend time with her and to get
her involved with life again. I know that she and her
mother are working very hard to try and get their life
back on track and that as you can imagine is challenging
to say the least. Maria, I think, just wants to get back
to a 'normal life'. What that normal life will look like...
only time will tell.
They each have intended to update this page, and I know
they want to connect with you all again very soon. I am
proud that they are making it a priority to take care
of themselves.
Tomorrow is the anniversary of Maria's accident. She
prefers to think about February 23 instead, the day when
she made the unconscious decision to live. She calls it
her new birthday. I know there
will be many of us thinking about her tomorrow. Lets make
sure we remember all those in our lives that we love so
much. Let them know!!
Grateful blessings to us all.
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Last updated:
1/6/05
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Happy, healthy and prosperous New Year to you all!
Maria had surgery over the Christmas holiday. You could
say that Santa gave Maria a new nose for Christmas! She
also had work done on her temples, some screws and pins
removed from her jaw, and lastly they worked to lessen
some of her scars. To avoid more scars some bone was taken
from her skull and the actual procedure was done through
the scalp incision. Needless to say Maria has approximately
100 staples from ear to ear across the top of her head.
This was a very invasive procedure and I am very proud
of Maria and her scense of humor throughout it all.
Thanks to all of you who have reached out to help us,
making it possible to afford a private nurse to come and
help Maria (and myself) during the daytime for the first
few days after the surgery.
Most of the swelling associated with the surgery is down
now and I am hopeful that Maria will be able to get back
to her rehab and workouts soon, which will help her to
regain her strength.
As some of you know, Maria had a song written and recorded
for her, Maria's Song. We would
like to have it played on the radio to share this beautiful
message. Does anyone have a contact within the radio industry
that could help?
-Robin, Maria's mother
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Last updated:
12/24/04
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I wanted to quickly let everyone know that Maria came
through her last surgery with flying colors! She is doing
well and on the road to recovery!
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Last updated:
12/23/04
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Today Maria goes in for her next surgery. She and Robin
could use all the prayers possible. They will probably
be in Harborview hospital throughout the Christmas holiday
and then home to recover.
Maria and Robin are grateful that her recovery has progressed
to the necessary level that the surgery today can happen.
It's amazing to think all this has happened in such a
short time (9 months!) I'm sure it has not gone quite
so quickly for Maria who lives in her body 24/7. I am
so proud of these two ladies and all that they have come
through.
Robin was interviewed on KOMO 1000 yesterday, and if
you would like to hear it you can click
on this link.
Merry Christmas!
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Last updated:
12/12/04
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I am feeling very 'portly' lately, maybe that has something
to do with the amount of morning mochas I have had over
the last few weeks. I wish I could afford my personal
trainer 24/7 so I could fix this 'portly' state.
Mom was asking me this morning to describe my headaches.
I will try to explain. Each day the headaches are different,
but most times they start out the same, as a slight rumble.
I mostly just try to ignore them as much as possible,
but of course when I am tired or upset, they get to be
hard to handle.
This week, on one of my better days, I made a veggie
lasagna and homemade pizza with a pesto/alfredo sauce,
delectable veggies, artichokes hearts, asparagus and olives
for my mom. What can I say.. The pizza went fast so it
must have been pretty good! I love to cook so much! It
makes me so happy when I feel well enough to cook.
-Maria Federici
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Last updated:
12/02/04
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King County is asking for your opinion about proposed
legislation (Maria Federici bill) and I am asking that
you take a moment to express your opinion . It is a brief
and easy process. To view this page, go the the address
below, and look in the "What's your Opinion"
box on the left hand column. I believe this will only
be up for a few days, so you quick response would be much
appreciated.
http://www.metrokc.gov/exec/
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Last updated:
11/29/04
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Happy Thanksgiving to you all! We shared Thanksgiving
dinner with our neighbors. We had chicken, asparagus,
scalloped potatoes, two small lobster tails (to share)
& fruit custard for dessert. We started with a mimosa
toast. "A lovely cocktail."
I gave Sam-I-am all by myself today, in the kitchen sink.
He was shampooed, rinsed and massaged, and I even cleaned
his eyes. (Cavaliers, his breed is a bit weepy) Needless
to say the "Prince" is sitting on his throne
(the couch) to dry in the sun. (Cavaliers are also famous
for really enjoying being pampered!)
Mary Swift of the King County Journal wrote a wonderful
piece about being thankful. She commented on what Maria
is thankful for this year. (read
the story) Their photographer was present at Maria's
birthday party and snapped a photo (I am told) of me at
a happy and gleeful moment.
We, Robin, (my mother) and I especially want to thank
everyone for standing by us.
-Maria Federici
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Last updated:
11/14/04
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My birthday party took place on Thursday, November 4th.
It was held at Club Medusa, my old workplace. I was very
sick before and during the limo ride to the party. Within
a half hour I began to feel better, because I got to meet
with all my friends and dance, dance, dance! Once I got
on the dance floor, I danced almost every dance with my
aunt Liz and many of my friends. I had a good time at
my party and was glad my mom encouraged me to go even
though I felt so bad at the start of the evening. We unfortunately
had to leave with the Limo before I was ready to go though
and I even missed the birthday cake. As we were leaving
everyone joined in and sang happy birthday to me! I was
a TIRED lady when I got home and crashed immediately.
The next day my mom and I got to do something special
for the two of us. We added a 1 year old female golden
retriever to our little family. Her name is Sky. All of
the other dogs greeted her exceptionally well and she
already fits in beautifully.
Thankfully, I have had several hours over the last few
days without my usual headaches. It doesn't sound like
much but the relief even for a small amount of time is
so wonderful.
More good news, my next major surgery is scheduled for
December 23rd. Both mom and I are relieved to get this
one over with. My plastic surgeon will totally reconstruct
my nose, temples and upper lip. They will also work to
lesson the scars on my cheek and throat. While we may
have to spend Christmas 2004 in the hospital, getting
this done now, especially the nose, is the best gift I
could receive.
I want to share with you some wonderful stories the local
press has recently done. The links below will take you
to these stories.
-Maria Federici
Robert
Jamieson, Jr. has written another very moving follow-up
column on Maria Federici in today's "Seattle P-I"
"Law
would strengthen road-debris penalties"
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10/30/04
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Halloween is coming and then the election. I just don't
know what to say about that. I'm not sure for instance
that I believe my vote really makes that much of a difference,
to deal with the pain and try and learn about all the
issues and make an educated vote, its too much for me
right now. I don't think I would not vote for bush if
I did.
Since my computer has been installed and I have started
lessons, I have typed two sentences even thought I really
can't type. My personal trainers is great. I just got
hair cut and color so I feel prettier. Long car rides
make me sick and dizzy, rides over about 20 min. are just
too much for me.
The Sons of Italy had a dinner /roast in my honor recently.
Because of the long car ride and long evening, I had a
very difficult time being positive and polite during the
dinner. I was getting chills and pain all night, and I
didn't get to speak after they presented me with the honor.
It was loud and uncomfortable and my head pain was overwhelming.
I felt very sick the whole time but I tried very hard
to be nice. I appreciate their intent, but it was a difficult
experience, it was so very hard on my head/body. Inside
my head feels like someone is continually blowing up a
balloon in my head. More and more pressure. I don't know
what to do about it and I'm not sure how long I can take
it.
I try and stay positive and do things that make me happy.
I want to cook more but I am feeling to bad to stand and
do it. (or do the dished like I'm sure my mom would appreciate
sometimes.) Robert Jameson came to dinner the other night.
He was fun and lively and we really had a good time. On
the evening of my birthday, October 31st, I will dress
up to give out the candy to at my door.
Still lighting up my life is my little pup, Sam I Am!
-Maria Federici
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Last updated:
10/23/04
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I'm sorry for the delay in the updates. Maria has been
feeling real bad lately and is unable to update this page
as she intended. I thought I would let folks know so that
they would not think she has abandoned you.
Maria's pain has been increasing again the last few weeks
and she has been back to see 2 specialists to discover
the problem and get her some relief. Maria it seems is
now really understanding her situation and it often makes
her so very sad. I hope that folks continue to reach out
to her and that her friends who have kept connecting with
her continue to do so and any other friends that have
stepped back will again come forward and call or visit
her. She really does need this to keep her positive and
strong.
Can any of us truly imagine what she is feeling?!
I am asking you personally to reach out when you can
and just say hello. Let her know what is going on in your
life, give her something else to think about. Let her
know you care. It means SO MUCH!!
-Sherry Palmiter
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Last updated:
10/10/04
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We had a good vacation at Long Beach Washington. When
I got home from vacation, my neighbor had built a custom
desk for my new computer system. My desk feels beautiful
and mom says it matches the old cabin pine. I will take
two computer lessons a week and hope to be proficient
in the next month or so. My computer will help me attain
my goal to go back to school for my masters. In the mean
time I am considering exploring massage therapy. My goal
with massage therapy is to work specifically on car accident
victims to help relieve a good amount of physical discomfort.
I know from personal experience how much it can help.
I don't know if I mentioned this before, but I have a
superb personal trainer that comes in the morning. These
workouts have helped me to relieve some of my headaches
and dizzy spells. We have graduated from occupational
therapy this week also. Freeing up some time in my busy
therapy schedule.
On another lovely note my puppy Sam-I-am is still lighting
up my life. Sam has a very happy smiling attitude. He's
a chipper dog. Making him a great companion for me. If
he were a man not a doggy I'd marry him. He's just so
cute.
I hope to post an update again in a few days. Take care!
-Maria
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Last updated:
9/29/04
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Hello again everyone. I will do my best to keep up with
updates at least once a week. It's important to me to
connect with everyone when I am able. I hope that throughout
my recovery and after upcoming surgeries, that I will
have the ability to continue with these updates.
My mother Robin and I are enjoying a quick getaway to
Long Beach Washington. One of the best parts of this holiday
is spending time with some close girlfriends that have
come to be with me here at the beach. I consider myself
more than lucky to have my friends that have stood by
me throughout this whole ordeal. It means so much. Just
being able to visit, walk on the beach, cook, sing and
dance together, reminds me of what my life used to be
like. We are on our holiday for next the week, with several
more friends and my family committed to visiting.
While in Long Beach, we plan on visiting with the local
police department so I can introduce myself and share
our vision to raise awareness to the problem of road debris
accidents and unsecured loads.
My pups, Sam-I-am and Jorja, are both here with us, but
poor Beau is back at home staying with friends. He has
injured his right back knee. It's too difficult to keep
him from running and playing hard on the beach which would
only make him suffer terribly afterwards.
I hope to post an update again in a few days. Take care!
-Maria
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Last updated:
9/22/04
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Wow, it's amazing to realize that it has been an entire
month since the last update! Please understand that Maria,
and Maria's mother Robin are working very hard and doing
the best they can to heal and get on with there new life.
There is now a group of individuals working with them
to facilitate change when it comes to the issue of unsecured
loads, at the same time that they are juggling Maria's
busy therapy schedule. Time goes by so quickly when your
schedule is so full. The gratitude felt towards every
person who has supported and contributed is as always
very deeply felt. Again, thank you.
This update comes directly from Maria:
"I've been back at home for 4 months now and being
at home, a place that I have lived most of my life, is
really helping me mentally, physically and emotionally.
Besides my other therapy, I am working out 3 times a week,
which is helping tremendously with the headaches and dizziness.
My new puppy Sam-I-am, and my other dogs, Beau and Jorja
have really been such a big help in my recovery. We all
love and need each other, its like having siblings. I
want to mention how appreciative I am when people approach
me when I'm out at the mall or grocery store. Their delicate
and warm thoughts really make me feel so wonderful. I
hope that more people reach out and connect with me in
that way. It really makes me feel so good. Overall I am
mostly a happy camper and my smile is working better these
days!"
We are all working very hard to make something positive
from this tragedy. Bringing more attention to the problem
of road debris accidents and better awareness to the proper
ways to secure loads. It is our mission and our passionate
quest. If you can and want to offer your help or support,
please sign up on the volunteer
opportunities page.
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Last updated:
8/21/04
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It has been a while since we have had an opportunity to
write an update. Does it seem to you that time is going
faster than it used to? Do you know the saying "No
news is good news"? You could say that it is true
in this case.
Thanks to all those who look to this page for an update
on Maria and write in on the discussion page. We read
all of these entries to Maria every other day. It seems
she can now understand and remember these messages. Sometime
in the future, we all hope (including Maria), to have
Maria herself respond to these messages. She is so pleased
to hear from you, it really helps her stay positive!
We also have the new "Volunteer
Opportunities" link on this site. We
are setting up a foundation to implement changes to create
safer roadways, and need all the help we can to get this
underway. There are a number of kind folks that have already
signed up to help. Our new volunteer
coordinator is setting up a system to connect with
those folks. Thank you so much, you can expect to hear
back from her soon.
Maria and Robin had their first outing on the little
lake that they live on yesterday. They were treated to
a ride on their neighbors motorized floating barge with
a BBQ dinner and gentle cool breezes. It was a great treat,
and Maria didn't get seasick!
Maria is grateful when her friends check in on her or
call just to say hello. She has so many things she has
to do that aren't necessarily fun, it really picks up
her spirits to just be a regular person from time to time
and just visit without necessarily talking about her accident
or her situation. Make sure you all keep it up!
Maria's health is improving daily. I think that it has
alot to do with her attitude for sure. She is very busy
with therapy appointments that consume most of her week.
She has been working aggressively on opening her mouth
and stretching those muscles. This will help to facilitate
a greater variety of foods that she can enjoy. Although
she is improving daily and her attitude is positive, I
don't want you to assume she is fully recovered or that
she has no problems or pain. Maria rarely complains. Please
keep her in your thoughts and prayers.
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Last updated:
8/03/04
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After a busy week, Maria has had some much needed, quality
'down time' recently. The weather has been beautiful,
if not a bit hot.
A couple of weeks ago, Maria said how much she missed
direct physical contact. She loves her dogs Jorje and
Beau very much, but really wanted to be able to cuddle
and hold them when she felt lonely. Well it didn't take
long for her needs to be met! A kind soul and close friend
of the family donated money to buy a new small dog of
Maria's choosing. Robin and Maria looked into what kind
of small dog would fit best into their life and be the
special friend Maria hoped for. Sam-I-Am is his name and
he has exceeded Maria's expectations. Robin herself is
so moved by how this new member of the family has really
brought Maria to a new level of happiness. She has someone
to care for, to personally connect with and love as her
own. It makes a real difference on those days when Maria
just doesn't want to face another day, and then she is
encouraged by this sweet loving pooch. Its uncanny how
animals can truly understand their job and Sam-I-Am seems
to completely know that Maria is his responsibility. He
is VERY aware of where she is and what she is doing. He
seem to know just when to climb into her lap and when
to leave her alone. He is just as mellow and calm as his
much older, and bigger new sibling dogs. Maria and Robin
are so thankful to that 'special someone' that helped
make Sam-I-Am possible for Maria.
Robin was so proud of Maria during her recent live interview
on the local show Northwest Afternoon. She handled the
whole interview with grace while answering the sometimes
difficult questions. Maria said she felt very comfortable
and that everyone treated her with dignity and respect.
She even managed to do it all in 3" heels. "Ah,
to be young again.." -Robin
Robin had an opportunity to meet with Don Stevenson on
the John Wayne trail to wish him good luck and a safe
trip. Yesterday began his first leg of the 100 mile journey,
blind folded (with support) across the Cascades. This
is his 2nd walk to help Maria. Thank you to Don and all
the other folks helping to raise awareness about Maria,
her story and to the problem of Road debris accidents.
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Last updated:
7/26/04
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It has been a long time since we have had an opportunity
to do an update. Thanks for your patience. Maria has had
many opportunities in the last few weeks to meet with
reporters. Maria has been wanting to talk about her experience
and with the recent interest with the AAA Foundations
study on Vehical Related Road Debris Accidents, she is
ready and able to reach out now.
The most recent article prepared by South
King County Journal, (Sunday's addition) was a nice
to surprise for Maria. Robin and Maria were at the grocery
store when a fireman stopped Maria to say HI, give Maria
a hug and give her encouragement. He had just finished
reading the article about Maria with his family that morning.
Please know how much Maria is positively effected by the
compassion she is shown by others, it meant a great deal
to her.
On the medical side, we just located a new eye surgeon
for Maria. We are putting any eye surgery off until October/November
so that Maria and her mom can enjoy some of the summer
months. We are very happy with this new doctor. He is
one of the only doctors who have asked Maria how she felt
about losing her eyes. We learned alot from our visit
and feel comfortable that he will take good care of Maria.
We just received a note and donation from MGM Construction
Services in Sumner. We wanted to share a portion of that
letter with you.
" We wanted to let you know that your story has taught
us a very valuable lesson. In the past our main concern
has been about littering the streets with our debris,
not realizing just how dangerous hauling can be."
"Forevermore, we will think of you every time we
fill up our truck." "...and we will give our
loads the "Federici Seal" which guarantees us
that nothing will fly out of our truck. We are sorry that
you had to go through so much pain, but sometimes that's
what it takes to change the world, which you have done.
Thank you."
Thank you, MGM, so much for your prayers and your desire
to heighten awareness. This hopefully will help to encourage
others to follow your "Federici Seal" example.
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Last updated:
7/13/04
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This morning, CBS television, and The Early Show, showed
the recent interview with Maria about her story.
For some reason, Local CBS stations decided NOT to run
the story that ran nationally. It was a 4 minute spot
that was very clean and poignant. For those of us locally
following this story, who support and care about Maria,
who were unable to see this interview, you can go to the
Early Show web site to see the spot at http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2004/07/13/earlyshow/living/main629212.shtml
After connecting with KIRO, They stated that they intend
to run the story today during the 5pm news.
I know for myself, as the web designer for Mariasmiracle.com,
I will be expressing my disappointment directly to our
local CBS station immediately, from the following KIRO
site to their News Comments section! http://www.kirotv.com/contact/index.html?treets=sea&tml=sea_9am&ts=T&tmi=sea_9am_1_11000007132004
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Last updated:
7/11/04
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This has been a very busy and productive couple of weeks.
Maria continues to recover from her latest surgery and
is getting stronger and more clear in her thinking. Its
been so great to have her close friends and neighbors
around to visit her and stimulate (and exercise) her mind.
Her grandparents are in the area for the summer (their
usual summer long visit) and so the family has really
taken the opportunity to continue to offer their love,
time and support to both Maria and Robin.
Last Thursday, July 1, CBS television, and The Early
Show, flew here to Washington state to interview Maria
about her story. They are interested in Maria's story
and how it relates to the recent AAA Foundation for Traffic
Safety's research analysis released last month containing
surprising findings about road debris related accident
statistics. Maria was strong and coherent. We all look
forward to the airing of this interview and hope that
it reflects the caring attitude that the entire CBS crew
expressed during its taping. Look for it on CBS's
The Early Show on Tuesday, July 13, 2004 from 7am
- 9am.
Saturday, July 10 marked two events that directly effect
Maria's healing and her attitude about her situation.
First, the local news stations and newspapers reported
that after months of reviewing the case, prosecutors say
the man will not be charged with hit-and-run. King County
prosecutors say they don't have enough evidence to warrant
charges against the man. The maximum penalty the man can
receive is an $82 fine a minor infraction for failing
to secure his load. This is obviously disappointing to
loved ones close to Maria. Maria herself is struggling
to understand it.
On the same day, Maria's plight has continued to move
strangers to offer support. Federici has friends she's
never met - like Don Stevenson of Auburn, Wash., who started
walking 200 miles Saturday morning to Mount Rainier from
Auburn and back to support Federici. See the item on the
home page for more information about Don Stevenson and
the For Maria's Sake event.
The Maria Federici Foundation is currently being set
up to address the vehicle-related road debris (VRRD) problem.
Information about this foundation will be posted as it
becomes available through this website.
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Last updated:
6/24/04
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Yesterday Maria had an appt. with her plastic surgeon
and there is some concern that she may have a blood clot
where the surgery was done in her mouth. If this is the
case, she may need an additional surgery to remove it.
Please keep your fingers crossed that she won't have to
have this surgery as the first was a VERY invasive surgery
with months of rehab ahead of her to get her mouth fully
functioning. Maria also has another appt. to get a second
opinion on her eye surgery. While there is no hope of
restoring her eye sight, it is our intent to preserve
as much as we can in the hope that future technology might
offer a possible option.
The local grocery store in Maria's community held a very
successful garage sale the weekend of June 11th. Raising
in excess of $2000 to help Maria. The community support
and effort has truly been amazing. Thank you to everyone
involved! (Barb, I personally am so sorry to have missed
announcing this sale prior to the event, on this website.
-Sherry)
Maria is adamant about continuing her education and
getting her Masters in Speech Communications at the UW.
She feels more than ever that she can offer a unique voice
to insure that this type of accident doesn't happen to
someone else. "All Maria thinks about is other people
and I couldn't be prouder of her!" -Robin
The AAA Foundation for Traffic Saftey's latest research
analyzes the VRRD problem and offers ideas for prevention
and education. Visit their site for more information.
http://www.aaafoundation.org/home
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Last updated:
6/22/04
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Maria is back home now recovering after her latest surgery
at Harborview. She is very happy to have her feeding tube
gone. She can now concentrate on her mouth through rehabilitation,
helping to heal and strengthen it.
The weather has been beautiful on Lake Kathleen, and
it's great to have Maria home where those who love her
can care for her. She also has some extra help (as does
Robin) with a lovely gal who comes in a couple days a
week for a few hours to spend time, facilitate her rehab
and generally help Maria with whatever she needs. It a
blessing to have her help.
Maria and Robin are so loving and supportive with each
other, one can only imagine what a huge adjustment this
is for them both. I'm sure that each of them could use
some extra prayers to help keep up their strength and
positive attitude throughout Maria's healing.
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Last updated:
6/17/04
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Maria has her next surgery tomorrow at Harborview.
It is amazing though that for most of her day she is
happy and talkative and is looking forward to warm summer
days on the lake. We all appreciate you patience with
these recently sporadic updates, but things are starting
to settle down now and we should be able to connect with
you all more regularly. God bless you.
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Last updated:
6/5/04
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Maria came home to stay last Friday. Robin and Maria have
had adjustments to make, but they are both so pleased
to be together and at their lovely Lake Kathleen home.
Her dogs Beau and Jorja have been sticking very close
to Maria's side "Now that I have moved home, physically,
mentally and emotionally... I feel so much better"
Maria said yesterday.
On Saturday and Sunday they took the walk around the
lake with the dogs. This is no small feat for Maria as
it is about a mile long walk with half of it through the
woods with lots of uneven terrain. Her endurance was good,
she and Robin laughed and really enjoyed themselves.
We are working hard to get Maria's mouth working and
open more. She has her next surgery scheduled for mid
June. She has been eating much more since being home.
She is eager to get her stomach tube out and to be able
to everything normally. As it is now her mouth opens only
about 1/2 inch so eating is a slow process with many tiny
bites. She is still unable to chew.
Maria is beginning to understand that she is blind (and
remembering it) and has some very sad moments. "I
don't understand. I really thought it was all a bad dream.
What am I going to do now? How will I work?
It is amazing though that for most of her day she is
happy and talkative and is looking forward to warm summer
days on the lake. We all appreciate you patience with
these recently sporadic updates, but things are starting
to settle down now and we should be able to connect with
you all more regularly. God bless you.
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Last updated:
5/21/04
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Yesterday, Maria learned how to properly use her sightless
guide cane. A wonderful woman from the blind association
came to provide Maria and the staff at Good Sam, sightless
guide mobility training with Maria's new cane. It was
amazing how well Maria understood how to use it with only
a half hour of training. She was able to find her way
down the hall with little assistance. We then went to
a local park and enjoyed a stroll along the pond. Maria
was able to recognize the sounds of the ducks quacking
and splashing. We had a good time together and it was
fun to see her have some freedom and independence.
On the medical side, Maria will need to have her right
eye removed and a prosthetic eye implanted next month.
The surgeon will also make some modifications to her left
eye, reshaping it. Her arch bars (braces that are stapled
through her gums into her jawbone) will also be removed.
Only time will tell if Maria will be able to retain her
teeth.
Maria now seems to really understand that she is blind.
Yesterday, she mentioned that she would like to use her
Speech Communications degree to speak to school age kids
talking about her experience and how one can still be
successful in life after loosing one of their senses.
She continues to amaze her mother with her wonderful and
accepting attitude about her situation, even though pain
is with her every day.
Maria is eager to respond to folks who have reached out
to her on this website. It may be very soon (with some
help of course) that you will hear directly from her.
Thank you for your continued support, your prayers and
wishes DO make a difference.
See you at the special Benefit tonight. Click
for more details!
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Last updated:
5/15/04
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Maria and her mom Robin had a great weekend together.
Robin picked Maria up at noon on Saturday and brought
her back to there lovely place on Lake Kathleen. Maria
slept all day (7 hours), sleeping through visits from
several friends. Later that evening she was more awake
and she and Robin had some good conversations.
Sunday, they woke early & walked over to visit the
neighbors. After a nice time together, we decided to go
for a walk with our dogs and Beau Jorja got to visit with
their Golden Retriever pal, Thunder. It was a walk of
just under a mile before Maria was ready to take a break.
Family and friends came to visit in the afternoon and
Maria had fun joking and chatting. (All of this is so
good to refresh her memory and stretch those 'brain muscles'.
Throughout her illness Maria has been so fortunate to
have such loving and supportive friends and family around
her.
We have all been very busy and involved with Maria and
her recovery. It has been difficult to update her condition
regularly. Thank you for your continued support and prayers.
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Last updated:
5/02/04
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We are all so grateful for good days, and today was one
of those days. Maria spent the day at her home on Lake
Kathleen, with Robin, her mother and Jorja and Beau her
lovely dogs. She had close friends visiting for several
hours and Maria seemed to be so happy to have a somewhat
normal day. Fresh strawberry/banana smoothies, and juicy
gossip quenched her thirsts. It was tough when it was
time to go back to Good Sam, but she and Robin talked
about how if she can keep up the hard work, it won't be
too much longer that she can come home for good.
This weekend a wonderful benefit was held in Burien at
Kennedy High School. The champion professional pool players,
Mike Massey, Johnny Archer, 'The Hat' Rich Geiler, 'The
Man' Dan Louie, and 'The Rifleman' Buddy Hall were all
on hand to use their great talents and skill to reach
out to help Maria. Everyone had a great time and the generosity
of all that attended helped to raised much needed funds
for Maria's care.
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Last updated:
4/29/04
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Maria is now out of isolation as her infection seems to
be gone with the latest round of antibiotics. No more
gowns and gloves for anyone! She has 7 classes scheduled
through out the day, this is a tough schedule for her,
but knowing that even if we feel they are pushing her,
its not a bad thing.
Maria was able to do well on the latest math testing
and did so without hesitation. She was very skilled in
math, although worked very hard to get her good grades.
We are also doing physical therapy to assist her jaws
in opening, now we can only get a tongue depressor between
her teeth. This process of getting her mouth strong and
working will take a considerable amount of time, and slowly
working through the pain caused by that is tough for Maria.
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Last updated:
4/24/04
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Maria is now settled at Good Samaritan. It was determined
the day she moved that she had a bacterial infection and
is now being treated in isolation to keep the staff from
coming in contact with the infection. This means we all
need to wear gowns and gloves for the time being. Maria
has a round-the-clock nurse's assistant at her beside.
This is a wonderful relief for her family and friends
who have been scheduling their time to keep someone with
Maria. Now we can be visitors and not just caregivers.
Maria's new daytime nurse is wonderful and Maria just
loves her. She calls for her by saying, 'where's my sweety?'.
The staff has been keeping her very busy, having 5 rehab
sessions each day. Yesterday, she even peddled a stationary
bike for 10 minutes. A BIG accomplishment for Maria.
Robin was able to confidently take off Saturday, rest
up, play in her garden, spend time with friends and even
connect with a local group of volunteers (The 8 amigos)
to thank them for all their help and brainstorm with them
for new ways to help Maria.
Susie, Maria's aunt has been by her bedside almost everyday
and the two of them have gotten even closer than they
were before. Aunt Susie makes sure that Maria is always
comfortable, stylish and keeps Maria primped and manicured,
as we who know her realize, that is very important to
Maria.
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Last updated:
4/21/04
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It has been a very busy time lately. Maria has been having
trouble with fever lately and Harborview has been giving
her tests to try and find the source of this on-and-off
fever. It is extremely difficult for her family and friends
to see Maria in such pain and discomfort. She continually
begs to come home and to make the pain go away. She seems
to go in and out of acceptance/understanding of her situation.
She is set to be discharged from Harborview today, to
be transferred to Good Samaritan in Puyallup, WA. This
facility is eager to assist Maria on this next stage of
her recovery. As you can imagine, this new setting and
new schedule is keeping Maria's family and friends very
busy. There have been many people reaching out to offer
help to Maria and Robin lately, they truely appreciate
your patience if they have been unable to respond in a
timely manner. You know their time and thoughts are where
they need to be right now.
Robin would like to share some very beautiful articles
published in the Seattle
PI (our local Seattle newspaper) written by her (new)
dear friend, ROBERT
L. JAMIESON Jr.
Please take a moment to read these articles which will
give you a clear update on Maria and the loving, generous
community that shares in your support. Thank you, and
god bless.
From brink of death, Maria
fights back (April 12,
2004) http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/jamieson/168958_robert14.html
Seattle reaches out and gives
Maria shelter (April 14, 2004) http://seattlepi.nwsource.com/jamieson/168700_robert12.html
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Last updated:
4/17/04
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We are all still reeling from the amazing benefit sponsored
by Club Medusa on Monday, April 12th. There was an incredible
outpouring of compassion and generosity towards Maria.
Many people who did not even know Maria, but heard about
her story, felt compelled to attend this event. It was
truly a celebration for Maria's independence. It is overwhelming
to imagine just how to thank all those people who attended,
contributed and volunteered to make it all possible.
A genuine, sincere thank you to you
all!
We will soon have an additional page to share stories
and photos of this event.
I know all of the thoughts and prayers for Maria also
make a huge difference. Robin, Maria's mom is sure that
God has interceded on Maria's behalf and is guiding her
on each step of her recovery. There must be an amazing
plan for her life.
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Last updated:
4/12/04
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Easter Sunday was a very special day for Maria. The sun
was out and the day was beautiful and as a special treat
for Maria, Robin brought Beau, Maria's Golden Retriever
to visit her at the hospital. We had a wonderful visit
and Maria was delighted to be able to pet and talk with
Beau! He was also happy to be with Maria and was on his
best behavior. He stayed with Maria for hours and was
very attentive to her and made sure to get out of her
way, like a perfect gentleman. "This was one of the
best Easter holidays that I have been able to share with
Maria." -Robin, Maria's mom
Tonight is the benefit celebration
for Maria Federici sponsored by Club
Medusa, with all proceeds including
wages, tips and of course the money raised through the
auction itself, to be donated to the Maria Federici Trust.
There are so many wonderful people that have worked so
hard in the past few weeks to organize this event. Maria's
family would like to again express their appreciation
to all and invite those of you in the area to attend this
event. Robin, Maria's mom, hopes to see you all there!
For more information, please see the benefit
page.
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Last updated:
4/07/04
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We have had a difficult few days. Maria has been asking
to use the bathroom every two minutes. Because of Maria's
brain injury, the hospital staff has been reluctant to
believe that she had a medical problem. Yesterday, we
finally insisted that she be given an exam. During Maria's
exam, they discovered that she has a bacterial infection
and is now being treated with antibiotics.
It has been extremely hard to distract Maria's attention.
It's been painful to listen to her beg and cry to let
her use the bathroom. (The medical staff felt it was a
psychological problem and insisted that we only take her
every half hour.) I have learned as a mother to be a strong
advocate for Maria and follow my heart and instincts.
It seems like we again have had a few baby steps backwards
in her recovery.
We have no additional news regarding her right eye. Please
continue to pray for Maria. It makes a world of difference.
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Last updated:
4/04/04
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Maria has had several good nights of sleep lately. Her
right eye is still extremely swollen and we are still
concerned about it. We will meet with the eye specialist
this week to discuss what happens next.
Robin, Maria's mom would like to take this opportunity
to express how grateful she is for everyone that has been
there to support her and Maria. There have been many people
who have given of their time and energy during this difficult
time. People have donated so much of themselves, from
staying overnight with Maria to preparing and delivering
food for Robin, to organizing other venues to help share
Maria's story and gain much needed financial support.
Robin would like to ask all of the people that have been
touched by Maria and her story, to write or e-mail Oprah
(www.oprah.com) to assist Robin in gaining national attention.
She would like to not only share Maria's story, but to
facilitate education and real change in how this country
regulates properly secured loads transported by individuals
over America's roads and highways.
Although I would ask you to keep Maria in your thoughts,
as always, Robin also wants to remind you to connect with
your loved ones. Make sure that you express your love
and spend quality time with each other today.
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Last updated:
3/31/04
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Today was a very tough day for both Maria and her mother,
Robin. Maria was in such pain today that she was unable
to have physical therapy. Her eyes have been giving her
alot of trouble in the last few days. The right eye continues
to swell and both her right eye and forehead above the
eye visibly throb. She was given the most pain medication
the hospital felt she could handle and she was still begging
and crying for Robin to help her. "She is so miserable,
I can't stand to see her in such pain!" said Robin.
The eye specialist came to examine Maria's eyes and has
scheduled a meeting for early next week to discuss removal
of the right eye. Although there is no infection, the
body seems to be rejecting the eye. Interestingly, even
though both eyes were badly damaged and her optic nerves
were severed in the accident, Maria's cornea in her left
eye looks relatively good.
Please pray for relief for Maria. Robin could also use
strength and courage to help her support Maria through
difficult days like today.
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Last updated:
3/29/04
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Maria was willing (and able) to take a long walk
with Robin, Maria's mother, down to Harborviews cafeteria
today. It took a great deal of work and patience for Maria
and her mother. She and Robin visited with each other
in the cafeteria for about 15 minutes before heading slowly
back to her room.
Progress is slow for Maria. Gratefully, she is improving
in some areas of her physical therapy. She seems to have
trouble with her short term memory. Some days baby-steps
forward and other days, steps backward, but overall Maria
continues to exhibit an incredible amount of courage and
tenacity.
Maria has expressed gratitude and good manners towards
all of the people caring for her. She consistently says
how much she appreciates those people that are helping
her. " You are so wonderful", "Thank you
so much", "You are amazing" are just some
of the things Maria says to doctors, nurses, therapist
and family members.
As always, thank you for keeping Maria in your thoughts.
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Last updated:
3/25/04
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Maria is talking but her communication is not often lucid.
She has been told of her situation (blindness) but she
does not have an understanding of what that means. There
is still no complete evidence of how much the brain damage
has effected her. Time is the only indicator. The family
is being told that it will take anywhere from 6 months
to a year to know at what level her brain can function.
Robin spent the whole day with Maria today, from 6:30am
- 5:30pm. Maria's family has really stepped up more than
ever to assist in the round the clock care that Maria
needs. Maria had a difficult day as she was not very coherent
and also very frustrated. She doesn't understand that
she can not go home. She is not even aware where 'home'
is.
We had an opportunity to speak with her plastic surgeon
today who told us that Maria would not have the additional
surgeries necessary for 6 months to a year to allow time
for the initial surgery to heal properly. He also shared
with us the fact that she will not be able to breath or
smell with her nose. The only possible reconstruction
of her nose was purely ascetic. As a mother, it frightens
Robin that Maria will have to use only her throat to breath
as well as eat (eventually). Therefore, she may
have a tendency to have issues with dryness and soreness,
and Maria has been especially prone to sore throats throughout
her life.
There is some good news, the trach was removed today!
No stitches were required, only a large bandage was necessary
and it is expected to heal within a few days.
As always, we are so grateful for all your thoughts and
prayers.
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Last updated:
3/19/04
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Maria has finally been moved out of the ICU and into the
rehabilitation area of Harborview! This is of course great
news! She continues to have some trouble sleeping, and
is still being fed through a feeding tube. She continues
to breath with the help of a trach tube. She now has a
much better way of communicating with the recent attachment
that has been added to her trach tube. Maria now is aware
of her situation and realizes to some degree what work
lies ahead of her. She is working very hard, and for those
of you who know Maria, she is a strong woman who is not
one to back down from a fight!
Robin, Maria's mom, was hospitalized over night on Wednesday.
She has been very worried about Maria's health and her
future, both physically and financially. She hasn't been
able to get much sleep at night in Maria's room and has
not been eating much either. The stress of this whole
situation has taken its toll on her. Please | |